As I tried to balance my plate in one hand while eating morsels of tasty treats, I wondered if it was starting to rain. I thought I was doing a good job of keeping eye contact with the person who was talking, when it seemed like a little raindrop passed by and missed my plate. I politely nodded and listened as the conversation went on. I waited for another drop to fall. When I didn’t hear, feel or see one, I thought it must have been my imagination. Plus, I could not picture rain falling on such a decent day in August. The sky had been beautifully bright and blue with hardly a wisp of a cloud the entire day.
My husband popped in on our conversation, and asked, “Was that a squirrel?” He got hit on the head with something. The four of us looked up, but since it was getting dark, we couldn’t see any animal hiding in the very tall oak tree. When we looked down, we saw evidence of acorn shells scattered about.
“Oh, that’s not a good sign,” we heard a lady say. “If the squirrels are acting so crazy about acorns already that means it’s going to be a cold winter.” Somehow the talk of winter made us scatter and mingle. I wandered over to the table and tried to decide if I wanted more shrimp cocktail, veggies & dip, meatballs, cheese & crackers, a wrap, or my favorite: a delicious bit of roast beef piled on toast and topped with a tad of horseradish. I took my favorite, and while I chewed, I stared at the cupcake tree stand. Since the cupcakes were chocolate, I knew I had to have one. The frosting looked like it was some sort of marshmallow that had been whipped into a bouffant. It reminded me of a hairstyle from the 60s. I plopped one on my plate and it didn’t last long there!
There were high tables neatly arranged about the yard with smatterings of other conversational areas. Each table was decorated with colorful bouquets of flowers that the hostess arranged in a most attractive fashion. I headed toward the table with the comfy chairs and umbrella just in case the squirrels decided to bomb us again.
Laura was holding Michael’s little nephew. I got up close, looked at his little nose, peaked under the blanket and saw his tiny feet. His left hand was bunched up into a fist and rested on the bottom of his chin as if he was in some sort of deep thinking process. I wondered what little babies dream about.
“Do you want to hold him?” Laura asked me. I hadn’t held a baby for years. When people ask me if I want to hold a baby, I almost always say no because sometimes it makes me nervous. But that day was different. I said yes mostly because that little baby and I are going to be connected with and be a part of the same family. Plus, he is one cute baby who didn’t make me feel fidgety!
As I sat with the little one and patiently waited for him to open his eyes, I looked around the yard. Even though a lot of us were meeting each other for the first time, the conversations felt like we had known each other for years.
When Michael asked for our blessing to marry our daughter, I knew it would be the start of new beginnings for us. For me it means getting to be the Mother-of-the-Bride, plus I am looking forward to being a Mother-in-Law! Even though Michael has seemed like a member of our family for quite some time now, it will be great when we get to officially welcome him to our family next year when Michael and Laura tie the knot.
Before this event, I didn’t even know that engagement parties existed. An engagement party is a nice way to start off all the events that come with planning a wedding and a good way to meet each others immediate families. I’m so glad I had such a splendid time at my first engagement party!
What a great favor God does to those He places in the company of good people! ~ St. Teresa of Avila
A great description of a wonderful time. And congratulations!
Congrats to all of you. What wonderful news!!! Have a wonderful time with the planning and the title of Mother of the Bride …. and Father of the Bride. Enjoy, the time goes soooo fast.
Nice post !
Oh, CONGRATULATIONS! How exciting for everyone!
Wedding planning and celebrations sure have changed since I was married. I think an engagement party is a great idea. Too often, families are thrown together only on the big day. It’s a nice idea to let everyone get to know each other a little well before the wedding.